Suatu kali tulisan itu terlintas di depan saya. Saya lupa tepatnya kata-kata apa yang digunakan, namun kurang lebih tulisan itu mengatakan: “Kesedihan itu tidak perlu dihayati.” Sebuah saran agar tak tenggelam dan larut dalam kesedihan.
Kata “dihayati” menarik perhatian saya. Continue reading
I was sitting in a brainstorming session. We were heavily engaged in the discussion. Once in a while, the facilitator looked at me, asking, almost expecting me, to say something. For a long time, I repeatedly smiled and said to him, “I am still listening.”
I was. I was still listening. I was also watching. I watched how the room was. I watched other people interacting (or not). I watched my own thoughts and feelings.