Category Archives: truth

titipan


“ada titipan dari leluhur. turun temurun dari garis martriakal. aku kok merasa ini agak membebanimu,” ucap teman tiga minggu lalu. aku terdiam. aku tahu pernyataan itu ada benarnya. kamu sudah mulai menyapaku secara lebih terang. demikian awal babak baru pembicaraan kita.

kenapa sekarang? satu-satunya penjelasan adalah bahwa semua akan terjadi pada waktunya. begitu pula penyadaran ini. saat ini, aku sudah bisa duduk tenang untuk mendengar dan berbincang. aku sudah mulai paham bahwa yang tadi terasa membebani itu bukan beban. alih-alih, itu caramu membantuku tergerak mendekat.
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Will you be just as okay?

I have heard it before on one of Adyashanti’s talks a long time ago. A member of the audience spoke of her partner—how she loved him and how she was confident of his potentials. Adya’s question was simple: will you still love him ten years from now if he does not change? If he does not lift off to the so-called potentials? She went silent. That was enough of a response.

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legacy

P1020779 - Version 3A friend posed a question yesterday: “What would you like your legacy to be?” I have never really cared much about my legacy. Perhaps it is my relationship with the word. Legacy sounds a bit lofty to me.

Yesterday, however, felt different. My friend’s question made me pause and ponder. What would I like my legacy to be? What am I about? What would I want to bring to this table called life? What am I offering?

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What is it that you truly long for, at this moment?

That question paid me a visit earlier today—upon asking myself what question I had at that moment. I posted the very same question on social media. The response I had from friends were: coffee, quietude, their bed, their apartment, water (it was still a Ramadhan fasting period), relief of headache, their mom and dad, nature, mom’s cooking, and peaceful mind.

Despite being deceivingly mundane, I appreciate my friends’ responses as honest expressions of longing. Basic, simple, light, and immediate; nothing long term, heavy, or complex. There was a need for relief and relaxation; a deeper wish than one might care to admit.

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Sepiring tradisi

Di rumah kami, setiap tahun, lebaran, antara lain, berarti ketupat, opor ayam, sambal goreng ati ampela, telur pindang, dan kerupuk udang—semua buatan sendiri (kerupuk udang tinggal goreng).

Dulu sekali, Ibu yang memasak. Kemudian, ada seorang asisten rumah tangga yang berlebaran di Jakarta yang memasak. Setelah beliau pensiun, pernah mertua kakak saya yang memasakkan. Beberapa tahun terakhir, ipar saya memasak, dibantu kami semua.

Berpikir praktis, dan berniat baik untuk tidak merepotkan kakak, lebaran kali ini kami memesan makanan lebaran pada pihak ketiga. Continue reading